Being a mother is the hardest job there is

From the Editor

It’s hard to really fathom just how much your mother loves you until that moment when you become a parent yourself.

When I was a little girl, my mom was my world. Her attention and approval were the treasures my heart desired. I loved to draw pictures for her and pick dandelion bouquets to show her how much I loved her.

For many years, though, I pushed my mother away, in an attempt to declare my own independence. Everything she said or did irritated me. I was certain she knew nothing about modern life in the ’80s. In my eyes, she was outdated before she was even 50.

Now in my 50s, my mom is the wisest person I know and has become my best friend and confidant.

It was when I had children of my own, that I began to see my mother differently. I saw how willing she was to help me, how important I was to her and the million ways she had shown me that over the years. It wasn’t until my own little girls grew up and no longer wanted to hang out with me that I realized how I had inadvertently hurt my mom in exactly the same way.

It’s not easy to be a mother! Physically or emotionally, it is one of the toughest jobs there is. The days are long and the demands are immense. Mothers sacrifice so much to ensure their children have all they need. As their child’s “safe person,” they often get the brunt of their child’s frustrations and deal with their most challenging behaviors.

As adults, moms are often our greatest cheerleader, best friend and safety net, all rolled up in one. My mom sure is, and I hope my own daughters feel the same way about me.

My understanding and appreciation for my own mother has grown immensely throughout the seasons of my life. The level of respect I have for all moms, especially for single moms and those facing extraordinary challenges, is immense.

This issue of Shore Local is dedicated to all the moms we love and honor on Mother’s Day. Take a peek at all the restaurants offering Mother’s Day specials and the listings of fun things to do with mom this weekend. Check out the feature on page 22, highlighting ways you can show Mom you care with gifts for the garden.

The region’s recently released economic forecast report (referred to as “Shorecast”) is bright for the summer of 2024. Read what the experts have to say on pages 8-10.

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Wishing all the moms, grandmoms and moms-to-be a Happy Mother’s Day!

Peace & Love,
Cindy