By Robin Stoloff
Health & Wellness
April has arrived, bringing more than just blooming flowers and warmer days. Marks Autism Awareness Month, also known as Autism Acceptance or Neurodiversity Acceptance Month.
Let’s be honest; awareness alone is no longer enough. If you have a loved one on the spectrum, as I do, you know the true priority is encouraging acceptance, promoting understanding and building a world where neurodiverse individuals are genuinely included.
Autism isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience. Some individuals have exceptional talents, while others face challenges with communication or sensory sensitivities. Personally, I’ve learned so much about patience, resilience and the beauty of seeing the world from a different perspective. Yet, I’ve also felt the heartache of watching someone I love navigating a world that often doesn’t accept their differences or accommodate their challenges.
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), 1 in 36 children nationwide, and 1 in 35 in New Jersey is identified with autism spectrum disorder. That’s why it’s time for everyone to better understand autism’s complexities.
Yet this month isn’t just about sharing statistics; it’s about leading with kindness and embracing everyone on the spectrum for who they are.
South Jersey’s
autism community
Fortunately, South Jersey is home to incredible organizations dedicated to this cause. One of the most prominent is FACES 4 Autism, a nonprofit in Egg Harbor Township.
Founded by parents with firsthand experience raising children on the spectrum, FACES 4 Autism provides educational programs, support groups and sensory-friendly events. Their mission is all about connection – helping families navigate the ups and downs of autism, while ensuring no one feels alone.
According to their website, “FACES 4 Autism supports children, teens and adults on the autism spectrum, and those who love them. FACES provides autism education and resources to families and educators in South Jersey, fostering self-advocacy, independence and dignity.” They are dedicated to the idea that those on the spectrum are “different, not less.”
Heart of Surfing is another remarkable, grassroots organization founded in 2014 by Bob and Cindy Fersch, the publishers of Shore Local Magazine. Inspired by their son Jamie’s love of the ocean and passion for riding waves, the organization became their way of honoring his memory after his sudden passing in 2020.
Dedicated to individuals with autism and developmental disabilities, Heart of Surfing offers free, inclusive, recreational opportunities. Their programs include adaptive surfing every Saturday during the summer, as well as year-round activities like skateboarding, sensory-friendly roller and ice skating, waterpark outings, trampoline bounce parties, holiday events and more. Managed entirely by volunteers and supported by sponsors such as Hard Rock Hotel & Casino, this nonprofit is built on the belief that everyone deserves the chance to play, participate and have fun.
Autism New Jersey is a nonprofit committed to ensuring safe and fulfilling lives for autistic individuals, their families and the professionals who support them. Through awareness, credible information, education and public policy initiatives, they advocate for lifelong services that enhance resilience, abilities and quality of life.
The South Jersey Chapter of the Autism Society of America, based in Mt. Laurel, offers advocacy, resources and support through social events, educational workshops and parent meetups, fostering a much-needed sense of community.
Raising a child with autism can be isolating, but having a network of people who genuinely understand makes all the difference.
For those seeking both research and support, the New Jersey Autism Center of Excellence (NJACE) is a game-changer. While serving the entire state, their work has a meaningful impact in South Jersey.
NJACE funds innovative research and offers training programs for teachers and therapists to improve the lives of autistic individuals and their families.
Their website states, “We address the complex and unique features of autism spectrum disorders (ASD) by promoting communication and collaboration among autism researchers, educators, practitioners and autistic individuals and their families to improve understanding, diagnosis and management, while reducing service disparities and improving health outcomes.”
National Autism Organizations
Several national organizations play a vital role in autism advocacy, support and research.
The Autism Society of America (ASA) is one of the oldest and most well-known, offering resources, education and community-based support.
The Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN), run by and for autistic individuals, promotes policies centered on self-determination and neurodiversity.
Autism Speaks focuses on research, advocacy and services for individuals and families, though its approach has sparked discussions about representation and priorities within the autism community.
Additionally, the Organization for Autism Research (OAR) funds practical studies to improve daily life for autistic individuals and their families. Each of these groups contributes to shaping a more inclusive and supportive world for the autism community.
How You Can Make a Difference This Month
So, how can we move from awareness to action this April? Here are a few ideas:
Support local autism organizations by attending events, volunteering, or donating. Be sure to wear your blue or blue ribbon, the color of autism awareness and advocacy
Educate yourself, read books and articles by autistic individuals to better understand their experiences.
Advocate for inclusion in schools, workplaces and public spaces.
Show up for autistic individuals in your life, whether by being a friend, a mentor, or simply make an effort to understand their world.
For me, Autism Awareness/Acceptance Month is personal. It’s a reminder that my family member, like so many others, deserves a world that sees their strengths, values their differences and gives them the opportunities they need to thrive.
This April let’s not just raise awareness; let’s build a future where autism acceptance is the norm, not the exception.
