Myth: Romantic love is the most important relationship in life.
Reality: The friendships we build over time — rooted in trust, loyalty and shared history — are just as meaningful and often just as lasting.
For generations, Valentine’s Day has centered on romantic relationships, while holidays like Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Thanksgiving and Christmas remind us to cherish family. Yet many of life’s most enduring connections are formed with friends — the women who have laughed with us, cried with us and stood beside us through decades of change. Galentine’s Day, celebrated each year on Feb. 13, offers a chance to honor those bonds.
The celebration gained popularity in the early 2010s through the television show “Parks and Recreation,” but the sentiment feels timeless. Galentine’s Day is about celebrating female friendships in all their richness. It’s a reminder that love doesn’t always arrive with roses or romance; it often shows up as steady companionship and unwavering support.
At its heart, Galentine’s Day encourages women of all ages to pause, reflect and celebrate the friendships that have shaped their lives, whether that means a handwritten note, a shared meal, or reminiscing over memories that never fade.
How can you make this year’s premiere platonic holiday iconic? Here are some tips for planning ahead:
Determine the size of your party
This foundational step is completely customizable. You can invite all of your acquaintances and friends to a big bash, or host a small gathering with your sister. You could even enjoy a holiday treat with your pet. Know your scope so the rest of the planning process is seamless.
Set an intention
In what ways do you want to connect? Some Galentine’s Day abiders exchange gifts. Others host brunches, arrange flowers, or dress up in frilly outfits. Maybe you prefer doing makeovers, making bracelets, or just gossiping around a table and drinking wine. No matter what you choose, fun will follow.
Create a vibe
Use Valentine’s theming with a twist. Create handmade valentines with hearts that read “B My Pal” or “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun.” Hang construction paper-chains in shades of pink, light a candle, or put bows in your hair. Femininity shouldn’t be shameful. It’s time to get girly!
Set the menu
Your party doesn’t need a multi-course menu. Try making some pink trail mix (pink yogurt-covered pretzels, sweet tarts, licorice, nerd clusters and fruit leather). Create a charcuterie board on your best crystal tray. Mix together a themed batch cocktail and pour it in whimsical glasses with on dainty lace coasters.
Focus on gratitude
Not everyone gets to cherish close female friendships. How has your circle improved your life? Whether you go around the table or hand out cards to your guests, make them feel special. This kind of vulnerability strengthens relationships. Dare yourself to be a little sentimental, even if you feel awkward.
Share goodies
No party is complete without a favor. Incorporate a clothing swap into your party, so friends can sustainably repurpose each other’s wardrobe. You could also bake cupcakes, hand out face masks, or knit scarves for your guests.
Galentine’s Day is an excellent opportunity to enjoy all those romantic things — but with our true soulmates: our best friends. There is nothing more wonderful than getting together with your besties to celebrate your friendship with sweets, champagne and, of course, the cutest outfits.
We wish you a Happy Galentine’s Day, dear reader!
