For BJ Gray, being a school bus driver is more than just a job — it’s a way to create lasting memories for her preschool passengers. Last week, Gray hosted an ice cream social for her young riders at Little’s Dairy Bar, a local favorite in the area.
“I’ve been driving a school bus for four years, and for the last two years, I’ve been working with preschoolers,” Gray explained. “They’re such a joy, and I wanted to do something special for them.”
Gray, a former restaurant owner, incorporates fun traditions into her work. She sings playful songs with the children, including a version of a childhood rhyme that ends with “Now let’s go get some ice cream!” Inspired by this, she began treating her preschoolers to an ice cream outing at Little’s Dairy Bar.
The event is carefully planned. Gray sends invitations to parents in advance and even practices ordering ice cream with the children on the bus. “We rehearse what they’ll say, like choosing vanilla or chocolate and deciding if they want sprinkles. It helps make everything smoother when we get there,” Gray said.
One child expressed their excitement, saying, “I was so happy when I found out we were going to Little’s! I told my mom I wanted a big cone with rainbow sprinkles.”
The outing is entirely funded by Gray and her wife, Tina. “I pay for the ice cream, and if the kids bring siblings, I cover theirs too,” she shared. “This year, we bought about 40 ice creams.” Tina also helps by picking up balloons and assisting with logistics.
One parent shared their appreciation, saying, “This kind of gesture means so much. It’s not just about the ice cream; it’s about making our kids feel loved and celebrated.”
Gray’s dedication to her bus passengers goes beyond this annual treat. She describes the kids as “wonderful” and says her bond with some of the families has grown close. “I’ve been invited to birthday parties and even had some of the kids and their families visit my home,” she said.
The children, who eagerly count down the days to the ice cream social, are thrilled by the experience. Gray noted that some returning students had fond memories of last year’s outing and couldn’t wait to participate again.
While the school year is winding down, Gray’s summer plans include a return to her roots in the restaurant industry. She’ll spend the season working at Smitty’s Clam Bar, reconnecting with old customers and enjoying a change of pace.
Reflecting on her dual roles, Gray said, “Driving a school bus is incredibly rewarding. I love my kids as if they were my own, and seeing their smiles at Little’s makes it all worthwhile.”
