Jeff’s Journal
By Jeff Whitaker
With Thanksgiving falling so late in the month this year, the Christmas Season has come upon us much sooner or so it seems. Before we know it, the big day will be here and gone. So, how will we manage to maximize the time we have with those we love during the next couple of weeks?
I don’t know about you, but my wife and I increasingly find that time spent is much more important than gifts exchanged. Of course, everyone likes to receive gifts. For children, the excitement of writing out their wish list and then the anticipation of unwrapping presents brings with it magical moments. This year with all the talk about supply chain back-ups and Santa not able to bring some of the things the kids want, it could be the perfect opportunity to concentrate on the things that really matter most.
Because if you are like our family, after the wrapping paper hits the trash and the Holidays are over, what our children talk about more than the gifts are the memories we made. For us, it’s the simple things that make the biggest impression such as a drive to Cape May or Historic Smithville, looking at the lights and enjoying a walk around sipping hot chocolate. It could be a special meal you all share together or Dad goes out with his girls for dinner to pick out presents for Mom. They make a night of it and it’s a special time shared together. Maybe it’s picking out the Christmas tree as a family or gathering one night to decorate your home together. It really doesn’t take much of an imagination and it doesn’t have to cost a lot of money. That’s the point. It’s not the materialism of the Season, it’s about time spent.
I know for some of you, this time of year brings back memories of years gone bye and loved ones who are no longer with you. You may be reading this and thinking, none of this applies to me. I hear you. But I’d say that’s why it’s even more important to find close friends, family or co-workers to make memories with. I’d even challenge you to find someone else to invest in. As we reach out to others, most often we will find others reach out to us. So, whatever special day you celebrate this Season, recognize that time spent goes a whole lot further than money spent. Or so I’ve found.
Jeff Whitaker is a veteran broadcaster here in South Jersey. He now draws on his experience and training to work with companies and individuals to develop effective storytelling, communications and leadership skills. Find free resources and ways Jeff can work with you at jeffwhitaker.com
