On a blustery Friday following Thanksgiving, members of the Darrow family made their annual visit to the 11th Street beach in Ocean City, placing a large Christmas tree beside the dunes. The gesture continues a meaningful tradition that began four years ago to honor members of the U.S. military, past and present. Today, it endures thanks to Ocean City resident Dave Darrow.
With help from his sons — Dan, Noah and Jesse — Darrow carried the Fraser fir up the 11th Street ramp and onto the sand. Once secured in place, the tree was decorated with red and blue lights, garland, ornaments and several American flags. Extra care is taken each year to anchor the tree so it withstands the often-harsh winter weather along the shoreline.
Surrounding the base are more than 40 clam shells, each inscribed with a personal message. Some are elaborately decorated, while others bear simple but heartfelt notes such as “Thank you for your service.” Each shell represents a loved one, friend or neighbor who has served.
The tradition began in 2021 when local resident Kathy Darrow placed the first tree in honor of her son, Noah, a proud member of the National Guard. After Kathy’s passing in 2022, her husband, Dave, continued her work. “She was always about helping people,” he said. “Not only is this a memorial for her, but it’s a memorial for so many others who have served in our military, both past and present.”
Now in its fourth year, the Military Tree stands as both a tribute to service members and a lasting gift to Kathy, whose idea has touched families throughout the region. Visitors can find Kathy’s Military Tree just off the boardwalk at 11th Street. The Darrow family welcomes anyone who wishes to leave a shell, ornament or message in honor of someone who has served.
As the holiday season continues, the tree offers a quiet reminder of sacrifice, gratitude and the importance of remembering our nation’s military — not only at Christmas, but throughout the year.
Photos by Steffen Klenk
