Letter from the editor
When I was young, my brothers and I would often get into heated arguments in the back seat of our family station wagon. It didn’t take much — maybe a stray elbow in “my space” or a debate over who was sitting on whose side. Cramped and restless, we’d go back and forth until my dad, in a voice that meant business, would say sharply, “Cool it!” That phrase has stuck with me for years.
These days, that same advice feels just as relevant — maybe more so. If you’re anything like me, adding extreme heat to an already stressful situation — traffic, parking hassles or navigating through crowds — only intensifies the aggravation. It doesn’t take much to feel like you’re at a boiling point.
There’s a term called “hangry,” describing irritability when you’re hungry. I think we need another word to describe that same edgy feeling when we’re overheated — something like “heat-noyed,” maybe? Because the truth is, hot temperatures don’t just make us uncomfortable. They can also push us emotionally, making us less patient, more reactive and downright cranky.
Of course, the heat also brings a mass exodus to the shore. Crowds swell, traffic backs up and parking becomes a game of chance. People are eager to cool off, but getting there isn’t always a breeze. It can feel like a test of endurance just to reach the sand.
That’s why now, more than ever, we need to pack our patience. Whether you’re behind the wheel waiting at a green light while large groups of people loaded with chairs and coolers cross the street (ever so slowly), or trying to find a patch of sand where someone hasn’t already staked their claim, remind yourself. The beach is meant to be shared.
Each summer, there are tragic incidents involving pedestrians, often because of impatience or inattention. Pedestrian safety is everyone’s responsibility. Even when it feels like the crowds are slowing you down or making you late, remember: People always have the right of way. A moment of frustration isn’t worth risking someone’s life.
And while we’re at it, let’s try not to sweat the small stuff. If someone sets up a little too close to your spot on the beach, try not to take it personally. In the grand scheme of life, it’s a minor inconvenience. You’re still lucky enough to have your toes in the sand and the ocean in front of you.
So this summer, let’s all take a collective deep breath — hot air and all. Be safe, be kind and be patient. And when things start to feel overwhelming, just remember the words of my dad: “Cool it.”
Peace & Love,
Cindy
