Jeff’s Journal
By Jeff Whitaker
As Thanksgiving approaches, I can’t help but think of a radio interview I heard. The host was having a conversation with a veteran who lost all of his limbs in combat, both his arms and both his legs. During the interview, the soldier casually shared, “And you know, I was one of the fortunate ones.” As he tried to continue, the host stopped him and said, “Wait a minute!” The host insisted that that was an amazing testament to this veteran’s outlook on life. “
I don’t know where life has you right now. You may be at the top of your game or in the valley of despair. The world around us seems to be out of control on so many fronts. Uncertainty has become a daily expectation for many of us. However, it could be worse. It’s true that there are a lot of situations and circumstances we have little to no control over in life. However, there are so many more that we do. I like what author and pastor Chuck Swindoll says, “I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it.”
Every morning when my feet hit the floor, I do my best to set a course for my day by reflecting on these three concepts.
I don’t want to take anything for granted, especially the little things. After all, it’s really the little things that add up to make the big things in life.
I’m learning to look for ways to add value to others. In other words, I want to be intentional about looking for ways to say something kind or encouraging. I try to use my gifts and abilities to help someone else along on their journey. I try to make someone smile or feel appreciated for who they are.
I remind myself that no matter where my day or circumstances take me, there is always something to be thankful for. My wife and I picked up a sign to hang in our home that says just that. The sign simply says, “There is always, always, always something to be thankful for.”
Interestingly enough, I find that the more I take the focus off of myself and onto others, the more aware I become of the blessings I have in my own life. As you approach Thanksgiving this year, jot down what you’re thankful for. You might be surprised at the length of the list. Then look for ways to be a blessing to others.
Jeff Whitaker is a veteran broadcaster here in South Jersey. He now draws on his experience and training to work with companies and individuals to develop effective storytelling, communications and leadership skills. Find free resources and ways Jeff can work with you at jeffwhitaker.com
