3 Local Dads Share Fatherhood Advice
By Raymond Tyler
Normally around Father’s Day I start thinking about what new angles I can use to pay tribute to my father, the late Raymond Tyler Sr. (My friends that knew him referred to him as “the original;” they called me “the remix.”)
This year I decided I would take time to discuss fatherhood with three successful local dads. Here’s what they had to say on their experience, advice to new fathers, and what they hope their children have learned about fatherhood from having them as fathers.
Ben Rose
Director of Marketing and Public Relations
The Greater Wildwoods Tourism Authority
Wildwood
Three Children: a boy and two girls, and grandfather of four
I was not prepared for the total commitment of your time and also sleep deprivation.
Advice for new fathers. Just relax and enjoy the entire experience. Many first-time fathers get caught up in their work and making a living for their family. But the most important thing to a child is the time you spend with them. That’s what they will remember.
What I hope my kids learn from me about fatherhood. I tried to instill in my children the sense of unconditional love and that I will always be there for them. That no matter what, I support them and love them, and want them to show that kind of devotion to their children.
Faheem Davis / DJ Fah D
Atlantic City’s top DJ.
Four Children
I was not prepared for getting emotional. When I first saw my daughter’s ultrasound, one tear came down my face and I have been emotional ever since. I never cried before for that. Now I cry at movies and weddings.
Advice for new fathers. Presence over Presents
What I hope my kids learn from me about fatherhood. Set high goals and be OK with the outcome.
Marc Berman
Podcaster, one of Atlantic City’s top ambassadors.
Two Children: daughters ages 36 and 38.
I was not prepared for diaper changing.
Advice for new fathers. Hug your kids for life, starting the day they are born so they always feel cherished and loved.
What I hope my kids learn from me about fatherhood. This father supported his daughters and helped to instill confidence so they believe in themselves that they can achieve whatever they set their minds to do.
So there you have it from three great dads that get it and got it right. Father’s Day is this coming Sunday, June 16. Happy Father’s Day to one and all!
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