From the Editor
Have you ever found yourself thinking back about how great things used to be, perhaps in the 2000s, ’90s, or especially in the ’80? (That’s when I was in my prime). I fall into that trap a lot.
Maybe it’s a middle-age thing because my daughters can’t relate. In their 20s now, they are always looking forward to what’s next. There is a point though, I noticed, that folks start looking back more than forward.
As an empty nester and bereaved mother, it is very tempting for me to linger in my mind’s “good old days.” The holidays tend to bring out those feelings even more so. I’m tempted to dwell on all the Halloween parties when the kids were young, costumes and pumpkin picking. Photo albums and Facebook memories always pull at my heartstrings. Images of my younger self, sweet kids faces and even beloved dogs that are no longer with us, appear on my computer screen daily.
It’s easy to think things were better back then. My memories like Facebook tend to play in a highlight reel in my mind, only remembering the best.
“Good old days” are an illusion though, similar to “the grass is always greener” mindset. There is good and bad in every day. Life is constantly changing, sometimes quickly, for better and for worse. But more often the changes are slow and steady. Each season comes with its own special joy, sorrow and challenges.
Whatever season of life you are in, do your best to embrace it. For me that means finding joy in the present while reflecting fondly on the past. It’s a tricky balance, but it is attainable.
Gratitude is the game changer for me. There are so many things I’m thankful for daily: for my family, home, dogs and even the little things like a hot cup of coffee in my favorite mug.
Life’s experiences have humbled me a million times over, shaping me into a wiser, gentler version of myself. That’s something to celebrate. So I may not do the things I loved years ago, but new things await.
This past weekend, I took in some festivals with my husband. Smithville’s Irish Festival was even bigger and better than I anticipated. We enjoyed the band, vendors and especially catching up with some friends.
Although the rainy Saturday pattern we seem to be stuck in has put a damper on some of our favorite activities, there’s still a plethora of great ones to choose from.
Check out the Events and Happenings listing along with all the Halloween activities and adult entertainment featured in this week’s Wahoo.
There is still plenty of Halloween fun to be had. If you’re looking for some memory-making fun, see what our amazing local advertisers are offering as you flip through these pages.
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Happy fall y’all.
Peace & Love,
Cindy
